As yet another symptom of my silent revolution, I’ve noticed myself pulling away from the blogosphere. (Rather ironic to announce in a blog post, I know.) As with most changes I observe within myself, I tend to sit back and watch it happen for a while before starting investigating and delving deeper (a strategy I do not recommend with weight related changes).
Why do I seem to be so disinterested in something that previously had me so enamored? It seems to be going nowhere.
Perhaps I need to take a look at what I’m reading.
I approached my Google Reader with a machete in place of pruning sheers and began hacking away at my ridiculously overstuffed pile of posts. As I shredded my feed of over a thousand unread posts down to zero, I started to notice a few things:
1. Blogs written by (and focused on the lives of) stay-at-home mothers were the first to go. It’s not that I don’t appreciate or respect these ladies – or their choice in life – but I just don’t seem to relate very well. And, I really don’t need to read all about their kids’ lunchboxes….I have my own kids’ lunchboxes to fuss over, right?
2. If a blog’s primary purpose was to entertain (a.k.a. I can’t take anything from your writing to help me cook meals, create something, decorate my home, find a book to read, or improve my teaching or photography skills) and it includes whining in any form, I nixed it. I’m over whiners. And yes, that means me, too.
3. Blogs I was most likely to keep around a little longer were people I know personally, include pictures that could appear in a magazine on my coffee table in every post, or pertains to my profession/hobbies AND offers ideas and solutions for my real world today.
Additionally, I found it really interesting that I’m (seemingly) not the only one drifting farther and farther away from the digital drain on day-to-day duties. I didn’t count, but suffice it to say that a few handfuls of blogs to which I previously subscribed have dissolved in my absence. Some bid formal farewell to their readers and web-friends, while others just simply…..stopped…..(The latter is more in line with my personal style.)
So, I’m wondering. Is it just me? Does anyone else out there feel as though the herd is thinning? And, if so, where are all the bloggers going? Are they retreating back to their “real worlds”, or just morphing their digital presence into a terser version of their online persona — tweets, status updates, and Facebook fan pages. Or, am I completely out of the loop and there’s some new-fangled dimension out there in cyberspace where all the cool kids are hanging out?
As more and more of us are connecting online via increasingly mobile devices, will the majority of us still be sitting down to write or read lengthy posts for much longer? Are blogs on their way out? If so, what’s next? Where do we go from here?